Meet The COR Family: Daymion Tyndale

Hello, I’m Daymion! I have a dual role at COR: SLP support worker and a facilitator of the Short Breaks program. I have been working at COR for about two years and have been enjoying it a lot! If I could describe my journey at COR in one word it would have to be continuous. COR has helped me realize who I am and made me realize that I am a leader and not a manager.

I first learned about COR from my brother, Stefan. He told me more about what COR was and how it would be a great fit for me and here I am! So far, Short Breaks have been one of my favourite projects. It helps me utilize my talents and skills as an individual who enjoys helping others and entertaining all at once. One of my proudest moments would have to be when the people we support begin to trust me and when they have their proud/successful moments. If you love working with people, have a lot of patience and would like to work for a company that truly cares about its people, then this is the place to be.

Fun facts about me:

I started reading “Be Water, My Friend” by Shannon Lee. I find that a lot of Bruce Lee’s teachings mirror Gentle Teachings.

My favourite quote is “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life.” – Marcus Garvey

My free time is spent either with my family and friends doing various activities or video gaming by myself. There may be an occasional book.

2nd Annual Prairie Sexuality and Disability Conference

COR is proud to host the 2nd Annual Prairie Sexuality and Disability Conference, in partnership with Saskatoon Sexual Health and Inclusion Saskatchewan. Join us in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan on October 18-19, 2023.

For more information, visit: https://nevertmi.ca/psdcon/

 

 

Gentle Teaching Stories: “I strongly believe that Gentle Teaching can impact the likely hood of an individual re-offending if human justice professionals practice it in all levels of occupations within the justice system”

Regina to Host the 2024 Gentle Teaching International Conference

The 2024 Gentle Teaching International (GTI) conference is the premiere gathering of people from around the world committed to providing positive and proactive support in health, mental health, disability and educational sectors. This event will mark the 23rd anniversary of the conference and will bring together 500+ participants over three-days from October 1-3, 2024. This conference presents a unique opportunity to learn about the research, best practices, case studies and lessons learned on creating and sustaining a culture of support for vulnerable populations in varied environments.

Gentle Teaching incorporates compassion as an alternative to the reactive and restrictive practices that are commonplace in working with vulnerable populations. Our central purpose is to nurture, teach, and sustain the experience of connectedness, companionship and community for those who have repeatedly experienced an existence of disconnectedness, isolation and loneliness.

Gentle Teaching is based on the premise that all individuals have a right to feel safe and valued in their homes; with their families and caregivers; and at their job, school, or other forms of meaningful day activities. Those who are most vulnerable require predictability and structure in their day. They also need to experience interactions from others that are overwhelmingly positive and uplifting (vs. critical and demanding). This is truly a cultural shift to, or in some cases a deepening of, those principles that provide a solid base for helping individuals experience companionship and connectedness. It serves as a foundation for other models of treatment or teaching specific to the needs of the individual.

COR and Gentle Teaching Canada are proud to host the Gentle Teaching International Conference in Regina, Canada on October 1-3, 2024. Visit the conference website to register and be the 1st to know when conference tickets go on sale!

Click Here for the GTI 2024 Conference Website.

Meet The COR Family: Morianna Fink

Hi, my name is Morianna, and I am with Mentorship & Outreach at COR.  I’ve been with COR since 2009. I first learned about it through a friend of mine that I worked with at another organization which also provided support to people. My journey began as a direct support and very shortly after I became a Team Leader. Within that year, my position shifted into a Supportive Living Team Leader role, which eventually morphed into Supportive Living Coordinator. Fast forward maybe 5 or 6 years from then where I became part of the Mentorship & Outreach team and where I still am currently. Another aspect of my role has been facilitating some training that we offer. I am thankful to have had the opportunity to facilitate MHFA (Mental Health First Aid), Mandt, and presently Gentle Teaching and Coaching Skills.

When thinking of the proudest moment during the time I have been here, I find it very difficult to narrow it down to just one. There have been a lot of significant moments in my relationships with people at COR where I felt like I have made a positive difference (even in the smallest of ways), which has certainly made a great impact on me and hopefully on them as well! Working with people is all about creating meaningful interactions and creating new memories with each other and I am extremely grateful to be part of that.

If there’s something I could share with prospective candidates, I would say just be yourself. COR does a wonderful job helping to highlight people’s unique gifts and talents and helping people feel at home. While you’re there, be curious and seek to understand. Also, remember that it is more than okay to ask questions or for help when you need it. Everyone is always glad to help.

Fun facts about me:

My favourite book is a really beat-up, tattered old poetry book called Poems Worth Knowing by C.E Lewis. It was actually a textbook used back in the 1950s and 60’s and it belonged to my Dad. It is filled with some of the greatest American, British and Canadian poems from well over the past 100 years.

A quote that I have always loved is from William Blake. It is an excerpt from one of his poems…

“To See a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour”

While away from supporting, I enjoy writing, singing and practicing guitar playing. I love bonfires and connecting with family and friends and of course, hanging out with my cat Habanero.

Gentle Teaching Stories: “Realizing that every day is a new day and that there are always new experiences to be had, allows for suspense and a chance for growth – not just for whomever I am with, but for myself as well.”

Gentle Teaching Stories: “Gentle Teaching taught me that things don’t always have to be punishments and rewards”

Meet the COR Family: Brook Pratt-Longman

Hello, I am Brook! I am currently the Indigenous advisor at COR and I have been a part of the COR Team for around 2 and a half years now! The first position I entered into COR was as home support, then moved into the role as the Indigenous Cultural Advisor part-time before taking the role full-time.

As the Indigenous advisor, my position has been created to help support individuals and their families to connect, reconnect, claim, reclaim and learn about Indigenous ways of life. I hope to create an open, caring and safe space that will help people navigate their journeys, as they either begin or continue to embrace walking in two worlds. It is a priority for me to help others see the world from an indigenous lens. A lens that can then be applied to the people we support, their homes and their worlds. I work directly with the people we support, their families and their teams to identify cultural curiosities, wants, needs and practices they would like to engage in. Some would like to attend Sweat Lodge, Powwows, Sundance, Round Dance and other traditional ceremonies/events. Others would like to receive their names, learn to bead or cook bannock, as well as a variety of other practices. A person has a better chance of learning and retaining cultural information when their teams and families are involved because they spend the most time with them. I am able to provide (or connect us to) all of the tools and teachings necessary for individuals who are awakening their spiritual connections. Ultimately the Indigenous Cultural Advisor position is an opportunity opening for people to find and develop a relationship with the creator and culture if they should want this. I both welcome and encourage you to connect with me directly for further information or for any questions you may have. Let’s meet and walk together with good intentions, in a good way.

I first heard of COR about 10 years ago or so from my Co-worker at that time, Mara. She told me a little bit about COR and really encouraged me to apply. She didn’t work for COR at that time, but she had relatives that did. She believed that I would be perfect for COR. We both experienced a transition in careers. At some point, Mara’s path led her to COR. A little over 7 years ago my little brother began to experience a breakdown in his support. COR was one of three options for possible new placements. I called Mara immediately out of panic and fear. Mara kept speaking the same words to me “I promise you, Jessica, if your brother comes here, he will be ok”. She had so much confidence and faith in her organization and rightfully so because she was right.

One of my favourite projects at COR to date has been the ribbon skirt-making workshop. I also really enjoyed the drum-making workshop that COR hosted. I didn’t organize this event and was very proud of COR for putting together this event. I am currently excited about our upcoming year. We have a couple of events in the works, such as Sweat Lodge, Round Dance and setting up CORs first Teepee.

My proudest moment with COR would be the Sacred Buffalo Harvest ceremony that Kirston, Miyseou and I attended. I was very emotional and proud to see our two girls participating and reclaiming their cultural ways. These ladies are probably the first generations in their families to reclaim these teachings since the massacre of the buffalo. They did it all from listening to stories/teachings shared, tying up hide, skinning hide and the actual breakdown of the buffalo. They were amazing! Additionally, I was also very proud of Ruby for wanting to enter the Sweat Lodge and receive her name. She absolutely loves Sweat Lodge and is so proud to have her name now.

If I had any advice to give to people who are interested in joining COR, I would advise people to be their genuine and authentic selves. The culture that COR has created here is welcoming, unique and it’s safe. A lot of places and much of our society has created fear of punishment when making mistakes. Here mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow. We hope everyone here feels supported and comfortable to ask for help. Ask questions, wonder why, and offer your knowledge/wisdom. Most importantly when and if you do come across challenging times, remember your reason(s) why you wanted to come into this helping and supportive field of service. There will always be a move that connects us then there is that divides us.

Fun Facts about me: 

I own exactly 4 actual paper books. 3 of them gifts. The other I purchased and continue to purchase it because it seems it always grows legs. It’s called “In Search of April Raintree”. I read a version of it in high school and then read the adult version shortly after. It’s a book that I strongly relate to and has helped me through some trying times.

I have two favourite quotes:

“Yeah, but the Indian blood runs through your veins, April. To deny that, you deny a basic part of yourself. You’ll never be satisfied until you can accept that fact”  – April Raintree

There was a time that I hated and denied being indigenous. There was a time when I use to be prejudiced and hard on my own people.

“Forgiveness is abandoning all hope for a better past” – Matriarch Brenda Dubois

I know this quote seems heavy and that there are lighter ways of saying the same thing, such as “forgiveness is focusing on the future and not dwelling on the past”. But hearing the way Brenda put it helped something click for me.

I spend my free time with my two cats Spirit and Kuppa. I also spend time with my family and I really enjoy beading.